Family courts are supposed to prioritize safety; yet too often, discredited theories reshape how abuse is seen and judged.
By: Doreen Hunter
Edited By: M. Ruffin
If you would have asked me in 2012 that a year later, I would end up in family court or die during the delivery of my child, I would have laughed and confidently said, “No. That couldn’t be my life.” But there I was at the end of 2013 with a notice of suit in hand and a failing body. I did not understand what I was walking into when I was sued. I believed, naively, that if I told the truth and presented evidence, the system would work. I believed facts would matter. I believed documentation and the due process would protect us.
Three months postpartum from an emergency C-section that briefly ended my life, I was blindsided with a lawsuit. My focus was on my daughter who had spent 19 days in the NICU and then on her 21st day of life was hospitalized again, four times within three weeks. My body was recovering from severe medical trauma. I had lost my ability to work. I was physically fragile, financially destabilized, and caring for a medically vulnerable newborn.
My pregnancy wasn’t easy for a variety of reasons and I spent most of it unable to work and losing my mobility. As a result I had to go on Medicaid. That action triggered involvement from the Texas Attorney General’s Office after my daughter was born. My conversation with the AG’s office seemed innocuous, I answered questions truthfully unaware how the system worked. At the end, my case was flagged for domestic violence and they matter-of-factly explained why. This was before his actions that placed me in an arm brace for months. Before physical assault of me and my elderly mother less than two weeks apart. Before law enforcement. Before the most visible evidence of harm. I did not understand at the time what the Texas Attorney General’s designation meant legally. I later learned it was not symbolic. It was statutorily significant.
Not All Violence is Physical
An interesting article from McCarty-Larson law firm explains what I have spoken publicly for years, nonphysical violence is abuse. Texas law includes nonphysical abuse as family violence.
“Under Texas law, the term “family violence” extends beyond just physical harm. The law also encompasses emotional and psychological abuse. For example, if a person repeatedly belittles, threatens, or emotionally manipulates their partner, this can be seen as family violence. In Texas, family violence is any act or threatened act by a family or household member that causes harm or threatens to cause harm to another family or household member. The definition is broad, allowing the legal system to take action in cases where someone feels threatened or is being psychologically manipulated, even in the absence of physical violence.”
Texas Family Code §71.004 defines family violence as:
“An act by a member of a family or household against another member of the family or household that is intended to result in physical harm, bodily injury, assault, or sexual assault… or a threat that reasonably places the member in fear of imminent physical harm.”
That definition activates Chapter 153 protections governing custody.
Texas Family Code §153.131(b) creates a rebuttable presumption that appointing both parents as Joint Managing Conservators is in the child’s best interest unless there is credible evidence of a history or pattern of family violence.
When family violence exists, the presumption disappears.
Texas Family Code §153.004 requires courts to consider credible evidence of family violence when determining conservatorship and access. If a history or pattern of family violence occurred within two years of filing or during the case, the court may not appoint joint managing conservatorship unless it makes specific findings that such an appointment would not endanger the child.
The burden shifts.
The presumption shifts.
Safety becomes paramount.
And yet, in practice, something else often overrides this statutory framework.
The Discredited Theory Reframing Family Violence
Under Texas Rule of Evidence 702 and E.I. du Pont de Nemours & Co. v. Robinson (Texas’ application of Daubert), expert testimony must:
• Be based on reliable methodology
• Be testable
• Be subject to peer review
• Have known error rates
• Be generally accepted in the relevant scientific community
Time and time again, I have heard as an advocate that protecting a child from abuse is withholding and alienation from courts biased using PA as a pillar. Alienation is the nickname for parental alienation. Despite that the Texas penal code 25.03 has an exception for domestic violence and abuse, that is often ignored. For some reason the judiciary only focuses at the near hint, the possible shadow of alienation. Even though PAS may not be mentioned in court by name, its weighty presence is an unmitigated standard. But not a legal one. Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) does not meet those standards.
It has never been included in the DSM.
It has not been recognized by the American Psychiatric Association.
It has not been adopted by the American Medical Association.
It has not been codified in the ICD by the World Health Organization.
After more than four decades after its introduction, Parental Alienation remains unrecognized as a legitimate psychiatric diagnosis and still cannot pass the Daubert test. Attempts to repackage or rebrand the concept have not resulted in institutional medical acceptance. Parental Alienation remains unrecognized as a legitimate psychiatric diagnosis by the major governing bodies responsible for establishing mental health standards.
Beyond medical authorities, significant legal and judicial organizations have also expressed concern regarding PAS and its scientific validity.
The American Prosecutors Research Institute and the National District Attorneys Association have identified PAS as lacking scientific foundation and have characterized it as unreliable in the context of abuse litigation.
The National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges (NCJFCJ) has cautioned courts against relying on PAS, noting that it lacks sufficient scientific merit and advising judges that it should not be treated as validated expert evidence.
While some individual authors in American Bar Association (ABA) publications have argued that forms of “parental alienation” behavior exist, the ABA as an institution has not endorsed PAS as a scientifically established syndrome. The ABA Journal has published analysis highlighting that PAS has been described by many experts as “discredited” and “junk science,” particularly when used to rebut abuse allegations.
The absence of recognition from both medical and major judicial bodies is not incidental. Under Daubert, general acceptance within the relevant scientific community is a core reliability factor.
PAS has not achieved that acceptance. Failing Daubert, that absence matters.
The Architect of PAS: Richard Gardner
Dr. Richard A. Gardner, a child psychologist, invented PAS in the 1980s. He did not publish through traditional peer-reviewed academic journals alone. He founded his own publishing company, Creative Therapeutics, and self-published more than 250 books, monographs, training manuals, cassettes, and videotapes.
These materials were directly marketed toward:
• Judges
• Attorneys
• Guardians ad litem
• Custody evaluators
• Mental health professionals
• Social workers
• Divorcing parents
• Financial advisors
According to his curriculum vitae, Gardner testified as an expert in approximately 400 cases across more than 25 states. His materials circulated widely in family courts.
Self-publication allowed him to bypass traditional scientific peer review, from which he would know and be accustomed of the standard protocols with his degree in higher education in his tenure as a clinical professor. His self-publishing allowed a direct path around required safeguards while directly influencing courtroom culture.
Because PAS was based on Gardner’s clinical observations rather than controlled scientific research, it must be understood within the broader framework of his published beliefs and influences.
Gardner’s career path is not linear. In 1956 he graduated medical school followed by a general psychiatry residency. Four years later, Dr. Gardner joined the U.S. Army Medical Corps where he was assigned an influential post as Director of Child Psychiatry at an U.S. Army hospital in Frankfurt, Germany. It is presumed that this part of his career was influenced by the 1960 “Doctor Draft” (Universal Military Training and Service Act) requiring young male physicians to serve in the military as part of their national service obligation. In this era, many doctors fulfilled this by commissioning as Captains in the Medical Corps.
Gardner returned to the New York/New Jersey area in 1962 and began his private general practice in 1963 in Cresskill, New Jersey. This was also the same year he began serving as a clinical professor at Columbia University’s medical school. In 1966, Garner was finally board certified as a child psychiatrist and in that year he opened up his private practice in child psychiatry. Six years after his 2-year stint as director of child psychiatry at a US army hospital in Frankfurt, Germany and 3 years after he was assigned to the division of child psychiatry at Columbia University.
These distinctions allowed him to treat children, divorcing parents, families, and legal professionals. Gardner maintained a private practice, from 1963 until his suicide in 2003.
During this time, up until 1978, Gardner established himself as a respected expert in child custody and child psychology. He had several books – The Boys and Girls Book About Divorce (1970) and Therapeutic Communication With Children (1971) - that were published by mainstream publishing houses. However in 1978, he established his own publishing company to transition into his later, more polarizing theories on parental alienation and supporting child sexual abuse in the mid-1980s.
Gardner in His Own Words
1. In Sex Abuse Hysteria: Salem Witch Trials Revisited (1991), Gardner wrote: “There is a bit of pedophilia in every one of us.” (p. 118)
2. In True and False Accusations of Child Sex Abuse (1992), he stated: “Pedophilia has been considered the norm by the vast majority of individuals in the history of the world.” (pp. 592–593)
He further wrote:
3. “Pedophilia is a widespread and accepted practice among literally billions of people.”
(Child Custody Litigation, 1986, p. 93)
Fun Fact: In 1983 the world population was only 4.7 billion people. By 1986, the world population was estimated at 4.96 billion people.
Gardner argued that society overreacts to pedophilia:
4. “It is because our society overreacts to it [pedophilia] that children suffer.”
(True and False Accusations, pp. 594–595)
5. He suggested that pedophilia and other behaviors should not automatically be excluded from what he described as “so-called natural forms of human sexual behavior.”
(True and False Accusations, pp. 18–32)
He wrote that children may initiate sexual contact:
6. “There is good reason to believe that most, if not all, children have the capacity to reach orgasm at the time they are born.” (p. 15)
He stated:
7. If the sexual relationship is discovered, “the child is likely to fabricate so that the adult will be blamed for the initiation.”
(Child Custody Litigation, 1986, p. 93)
He asserted:
8. “The determinant as to whether sexual molestation will be traumatic to the child is the social attitude toward these encounters.”
(True and False Accusations, pp. 670–671)
He recommended that removal of a pedophilic parent:
9. “should only be seriously considered after all attempts at treatment of the pedophilia and rapprochement with the family have proven futile.” (p. 537)
He advised telling children that adult-child sexual encounters were not universally considered reprehensible:
10. “Older children may be helped to appreciate that sexual encounters between an adult and a child are not universally considered to be reprehensible acts.” (p. 549)
And:
11. “In such discussions the child has to be helped to appreciate that we have in our society an exaggeratedly punitive and moralistic attitude about adult-child sexual encounters.” (p. 572)
These are his words verbatim, unexaggerated. And this is an abbreviated list of his vile comments.
When Alienation Was Tested in Court: Woody Allen
Gardner testified in 25 different states in over 400 hearings. Only one, brought him significant notoriety and publicity without testifying. In 1993, New York Supreme Court Justice Elliott Wilk presided over the custody dispute between Woody Allen and Mia Farrow. New York is unique where family court and New York Supreme Court are in the same jurisdiction and can preside over child custody cases. Woody Allen's legal team chose to file their case in the NY Supreme Court and not the family court.
Alienation-style arguments were raised using Dr. Gardner's patent belief of a woman scorned. Dr. Gardner was not testifying in this hearing but used the media to speak upon this issue as an expert.
Nonetheless, Justice Wilk was not swayed by the media circus and focused on their merited facts. The result, Justice Wilk rejected Dr. Gardner's toxic theories.
He wrote:
“The evidence establishes that Mr. Allen's behavior toward Dylan was grossly inappropriate and that measures must be taken to protect her.”
The court denied Allen custody.
Even during the height of PAS advocacy, a court refused to substitute alienation narrative for child protection.
Judges are not required to accept PAS. The question is why so many still do.
The Gendered Pattern
Professor Joan S. Meier’s 2019 empirical study of over 4,000 custody cases found that when fathers alleged parental alienation, mothers’ abuse claims were more than twice as likely to be discredited.
Mothers who alleged abuse were significantly more likely to lose custody than mothers who made no abuse allegations.
Raising safety concerns increased litigation risk.
Meier’s research is not theoretical. It is statistical and accomplishes the basics that Dr. Gardner's work never achieved.
A Problem Beyond Texas
International reviews, including the UK Harm Panel Report, have documented similar patterns where abuse allegations are minimized and reframed as parental hostility.
Children have been harmed and, in some cases, killed after courts dismissed protective warnings in favor of relational symmetry.
The risk is structural and not theoretical.
The Lens Matters
When looking at Dr. Richard Gardner and his published beliefs, accepting his theory as a remedy in abuse or child sexual abuse cases is comparable to allowing a system where murders dictate their fate arguing their distorted reasoning as logic.
It is peering through the wrong lens.
Parental Alienation Syndrome has not been accepted by the major medical authorities responsible for psychiatric diagnosis. It has not achieved general scientific acceptance under Daubert standards. It has been described by legal and judicial bodies as lacking scientific merit.
That means something.
Advocates, attorneys, guardian ad litems, evaluators, and judges must understand the history of this theory before invoking it, or allowing it to be invoked, in abuse cases.
PAS did not emerge from trauma science. It did not emerge from child protection research. Parental Alienation emerged from a framework that denied abuse allegations and demonized protective mothers. It’s pure unadulterated DARVO in its purest form.
Using alienation without understanding its origin risks perpetuating the very harm the system claims to prevent.
Alienation rhetoric does not always appear under the label “PAS.”
It shows up as:
“Withholding”
“Failure to foster”
“Gatekeeping”
“High conflict”
“Enmeshment”
“Coaching”
“Alignment”
“Controlling”
When those concepts are used to override credible evidence of family violence, statutory protections are neutralized.
Advocates cannot afford to be neutral on pseudoscience. If we know that a theory lacks scientific acceptance, and if we know it has been used to discredit abuse claims, then repeating it, even indirectly, perpetuates structural harm.
Rejecting pseudoscience is not ideological.
It is ethical.
It is evidentiary.
It is protective.
Before raising alienation claims, before accepting them at face value, before incorporating them into recommendations advocates must ask:
Is this grounded in validated science?
Does it meet reliability standards?
Or are we peering through the wrong lens?
Editor’s Note:
The Advocacy Table provides educational analysis and public-interest commentary. The author is not an attorney, and this article does not constitute legal advice. Readers are encouraged to seek licensed legal counsel for case-specific guidance.
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